It's My Life

Hello you all, Fatty is here (and not not In da House-I'm tired of that joke too). I know I have not posted anything the last two weeks, and I am VERY sorry (no really I am). I was trying to think of something SUPER FANTASTICALLY AWESOME to tell you guys (naturally, all my posts are so intersting- I know I am just so cool). I have to keep my street cred up, so dont hate me! Actually I WANT you to be a little annoyed with me. That would be the sincerest form of flattery (it shows that you actually paid attention to this crappy blog that I make when it's relatively late at night, and that you are DYING for posts). Well, I'm here to finally end your suffering by telling you a little story about me and my family.
It all started about three weeks ago when my sister went back down to college. One night, my parents were interested in her well being (they do love ONE of their kids), and called her up. She didn't answer. They called her again. Still no answer. They called her over and over again for about two hours not knowing if she was actually alive (don't worry she was). Finally we get hold of her; she's in tears, comepletely and utterly disturbed. She and her boyfriend had a little argument (i still do not know what it is to this day, and probably never will). Well, they broke up-- the grand seven year relationship that everyone in my family thought would NEVER end actually did in fact end. It turned out to be quite the ugly little affair: a few days later, he posted on facebook that he was seeing this NEW girl. My sister, upset, showed this girl a nasty comment the boyfriend had originally wrote about that new girl. Let's just say, he got a little upset. He started harassing my sister with hate mail and text messages that she actually had to block his number entirely.
Well, my mother was quite upset with this boy (naturally, he broke her darling daughter's heart). She was so mad that she even came up to me and instructed me to never break a girl's heart like that EVER regardless of the situation. Now, I found three problems with that demand. 1) there is no way I am getting a girlfriend any time soon, so I won't have the opportunity to such a thing (hey, girls i REALLY am availabe)
2) If i ever get a girlfriend, there is no way I am ever letting her go because God knows when I'll get another one.
3) If the girl's totally annoying and makes me unhappy, why should I bother making her feel happy? I should look out for myself right?
WRONG! (at least according to my mom's point of view). That boy should have settled down with her; he was not justified in leaving. You know what, I do not know what my sister did; I do not know what HE did, but come on, he was unhappy being with her. He should be justified in his actions because he should be looking out for himself first. True, he does owe her some respect, but he should have the OPTION to leave.
So many times in our lives we do things to make another person feel better. We sacrifice our own happiness, our own well being, our own LIFE just to make others feel "good". Don't you ever do such a thing. EVER. I APPLAUD my sister's now ex-boyfriend for doing what he felt was right. Naturally, I do feel a little resentment (she IS my sister), but a person's gotta do what he's gotta do.
Now, does that mean I will break up with a girl as soon as she gets annoying. HELL NO (I'm desperate remember). But I wont do another person a favor just out of pity or whatever; I need to get something out of it. It's my life baby, and I intend to live for myself.